nugget daddy and her grandmamie brought nugget to my hospital room to get ready for trick-or-treating. she was, of course, beyond adorable in her tinker bell dress and wings, sparkly green tinker bell shoes, tinker bell wand and ballet pink tights. i pulled her tiny tresses up into the best tink-like puff i could manage, fluffed it up with plenty of hairspray and added a clip with tiny white flowers. she politely shrieked, “dada! dada!” and beamed with pride as she was showered in nugget daddy’s hair product. what, you didn’t think it was mine, did you?


then we selected where she wanted her green star stamps placed and where best the pink star stamps were suited for. earlier, i ‘d done a sample patch of each color on each of my cheeks so she could see how they both looked. then we applied a very liberal dusing of pixie dust. i should have gotten her some “pixie dust” glitter of her own to keep in her “berry bucket” for dousing unsuspecting passers-by. ah well, there’s always next year!

we made a few rounds though the halls to the different nurses’ stations. nugget was heartbreakingly cute and insisted on holding my hand, always unsure of how to navigate around all the wires attached to her mama. i told her it was almost time to go to the mall for more trick-or-treating and that her grandmamie would be getting her the tinker bell movie while they were there.
we said our goodbyes and i swear, i just couldn’t get enough hugs or kisses from my sweet baby girl. i watched as they made their way down the hall, all the while nugget was cheerfully waving goodbye, happy as a clam, all pixied-up and ready for more candy collecting.
i stepped back into my room just as the tears started rolling down my face. i tried to sob silently for my own selfish sadness. i hoped she was having the time of her life, holding out her fat little felt flower bag – surely that’s what fairies collect halloween candy in – and squealing with delight with the acquisition of each new piece of candy. she had oh-so-politely signed “thank you” for each treat she’d collected from the nurses and i hoped that trend was continuing at the mall. i’m so very proud of my little tinklet.
i hope i can get out of here this weekend in time for the good post-pumpkin day costume sales at the disney store and old navy. otherwise, i might have to send someone armed with a fully charged cell phone and a whole lot of patience on my behalf!










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November 4, 2008 at 8:15 pm
Candace
You are the strongest woman I’ve never met
The world could learn alot from you…
November 2, 2008 at 11:00 am
Laura
Pixie dust from you and an extra dose of magical wishes is all she needed to be the perfect Tinklet I am sure… I am so glad you got to lay your magic on her. And I can’t wait to see pictures….
I hope you will be home soon….
November 1, 2008 at 9:23 pm
Tiffany P
I can’t wait to see pictures! I bet she looked so freaking adorable!
I took your advice and ordered the Deluxe Belle and Deluxe Cinderella costumes for next year, complete with tiaras and wands.
November 1, 2008 at 8:29 pm
Brigette
We just got finished watching the Tinkerbell Movie & I thought of you the whole time. I bet your little Tink was amazingly adorable in every way. I can’t wait to see pictures soon!
November 1, 2008 at 4:01 pm
Tantie
I can’t wait to see some pictures. Grandmamie said she was a perfect little angel on her trick or treating adventure and couldn’t stop talking about how smart and beautiful she is. I miss you and the Nug very much – but I’ll be there soon!
November 1, 2008 at 3:37 pm
Carrie
Very touching and sad evening. I can’t wait to see the pics of nugget I can imagine what she looked like, and it is ADORABLE! I’m sorry you didn’t get to go with her. Truly heartbreaking!:-( But you will never forget the beautiful little girl you turned into a fairy last night and what she looked like trick or treating down the halls!
I hope today you get to raid the candy she got!
I’m Thinking of you all weekend and praying you get rid of that nasty added illness and go home!
November 1, 2008 at 2:41 pm
Maria
BIG HUGS bigs, big hugs.
November 1, 2008 at 9:42 am
Laura B
I think that perhaps y’all should stock up on Pixie dust, at least until you are home!
November 1, 2008 at 6:58 am
heather
I’m so sad that you missed the trick-or-treating. You are such am amazing mommy. She is a lucky little girl.